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Give Yourself The Best Holiday Season With These Five Tips.

1. Presence is more important than presents.

You may want to agree in advance to take the pressure off this year and only buy gifts for children. If you do want to exchange gifts, you can agree a spending limit to avoid any unwanted “one-upmanship” or choose a comical, edible, or recycled theme.

2. Make meaningful moments.

Christmas is for connecting. Whether that is face to face, through cards, or virtually online. Create your own traditions. Play games. Use conversation starters for the dinner table, such as: “What’s your favorite movie/song?” Or, “Describe your best/worst Christmas,” etc. Make it fun and inclusive for everyone.

3. Stay calm and know how to handle stressful situations.

This time of year can get stressful with so many things to do and people to see. 

4. Happiness comes from wanting what you have, not having what you want.

Your “annoying situation” could be someone else’s dream. Be grateful for what you have to appreciate it even more. The more you value something, the more valuable it becomes.

5. Focus on the outcome you want.

If you are going to spend time with people physically or virtually, focus on why you are doing it and what you want to get out of it. You always get more out of what you focus your attention on, so focus on the outcomes you want to achieve.

Welcome To Mystical Wendy’s Fantasies

Today’s self-care affirmation for you is

I am enough just as I am.

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Spirit Attachments.

One of the most memorable experiences I had while I was training as a rescue medium was clearing an attachment of two spirits from a young lady. My friend and I were called in to help a woman that had been taking pictures at a cemetery for fun. She had spent the day there, taking pictures of headstones, trees, and statues trying to capture spirit activity on film. She had been alone, without any knowledge of protection against spirits. While taking pictures, she began to feel the presence of a man in spirit trying to scare her. After a while, she left the cemetery because the spirit’s presence became too overwhelming for her and she felt very uncomfortable. Later that night, she started getting visual images of the bottom half of a little girl and the face of an angry looking man. She quickly concluded that she picked up an attachment at the cemetery and asked a friend for help. Her friend quickly called my team to come in to help clear the spirit attachment.

Upon arriving, my friend and I walked through the main door to the apartment complex and started walking down the hall toward the woman in need of help. The spirit attachment was very upset that we were there because it could sense that we were there to protect the woman from it. The spirit’s energy could be felt all the way down the hall and tried attacking us before we even got half way. My friend and I quickly set up our defences, adjusted our protective energy to reflect the negative vibrations, and continued our way to the door. The woman walked out of her door and the spirit quickly manifested itself to us overshadowing the woman’s face and body. We could no longer see the woman, but instead, we saw the image of the man coming through her body. This was by far one of the strongest attachments that I had ever witnessed. The spirit hid from us once he knew that we were not intimidated by his presence. We all walked into the apartment to find the area very cold and dark with mist-like air all over her living room. Two bedrooms had open vortexes, and her cat was cowardly hiding under one of her beds. It was obvious to everyone that this spirit was serious about showing himself. Before the clearing took place, I quickly closed the vortexes in the rooms and started my protection rituals to help neutralise the energy.

My friend and I questioned the woman about her experiences. While she was talking, I could see the apparition of a little girl from the waist down standing next to her. The little girl was wearing a white dress with black dress shoes. The dress and shoes were dirty with mud and a dark shadow encircled her. I could tell that this child had been a victim in a terrible situation and died through experience. The presence of an older, abusive man kept very close to the little girl. The older man was the spirit manifesting the negativity all around the room.

After awhile of communicating with the spirit of the man, I discovered that he had sexually molested the little girl, murdered her, then killed himself, and kept both of them  earthbound in the cemetery. The evil intentions this man had toward girls and women kept him at a lower vibrational level. Due to fear of this man, the little girl could not find her way to the other side. He kept her prisoner as he held her close to control her.

I was able to separate the little girl from the man long enough to disconnect his attachment from her. My friend and I brought in our spiritual team from the other side to help block him from the little girl. I was then able to bring the little girl’s mother in from the other side to comfort her. The little girl’s mother was able to quickly protect her and cross her over.

While all of this was going on, my friend was completing healing work on the woman with the attachment. Healing work is through hands-on healing. The recipient sits in a chair and the healer stands behind them. The healer places their hands on the shoulders of the recipient to allow healing energy from the Divine to pass through the healer into the recipient. Hands-on healing can also incorporate protective energy to neutralise the energy within the individual with the attachment. This new energy stimulation caused the spirit attachment to break free from the recipient because the new energy being created wasn’t at a comfortable level for him. Once the spirit was able to be separated from the individual, I called in the spirit police, animal protectors, and spirit guides to remove the spirit from the apartment. This type of spirit was not receptive to help. He was only looking to continue his harm and harassment of girls and women. After the spirit was clear from the apartment, my friend and I spent hours clearing away the residual energy. The woman with the attachment felt positive and safe after the experience. Before we left, we taught her protection techniques and told her to stay away from cemeteries.

Though the experience was seen as negative, it did have a positive outcome. The little girl trapped by the sexual predator was finally freed from her cruel earthbound prison. Without the attachment experience, she may not have been able to escape for some time. She now resides in a better place with her loving mother at her side.




Remove These 6 Words from Your Life to Manifest Prosperity

Your SMILE is your LOGO, your PERSONALITY is your BUSINESS CARD, how you leave others feeling after an experience with you becomes your TRADEMARK.

So here goes…

1. Hate

To ‘hate’ something or someone can be used so casually in conversation, but it actually is one of the top pieces of language that fuels drama addiction and prompts a person to seek out negative things to simply use as conversational pieces.

2. Should

The word “should” is almost always loaded with expectations that are being hurled at another human being unfairly. For instance: “He should call his kids more often.”

This statement is fueling the fire for resentment to grow within your own heart if your expectations aren’t being met. Let people be responsible for their own actions and don’t “should” on them. You actually create a newfound sense of freedom within your own heart, which feels fabulous.

Metaphysical remedy: Make your expectations clear and invite people to be open to all possibilities rather than telling them what they “should” or should not do.

3. Yes (with moderation, and a filter)

Are you a people pleaser? Someone that says “yes” all the time because you don’t want to upset another person or rock the boat?

Metaphysical remedy: Create an incubation period for yourself of 24-48 hours where you don’t give a yes or no answer to important decisions unless you feel it strongly in your heart. This is the ultimate act of self care.

4. Broke/Poor

How often do you affirm that you’re broke, that you don’t have much money or that you’re poor? The Universe hears this as an affirmation and responds accordingly. In order for you to attract what you want into your life, you need to start BEING what you want. This starts by how we use I AM statements.

Metaphysical remedy: Check out my powerful affirmations that help to rewire your soul to attract abundance, love and happiness into your life.

5. Never

Just never say never. Yes, create boundaries and state to the Universe what you want to create in your life, but when you say that you’ll “never” do something (especially when it’s a statement made with passion) it tends to manifest to challenge your soul to grow.

I used to say that I would “never” date anyone younger. It was a fiercely held belief in my heart that it’s something that I just wouldn’t do no matter what. The love of my life turned out to be 5 years younger than I am, so I decided to retract my “never” policy which was the best decision I have ever made in my life.

Metaphysical remedy: Open your heart to all possibilities.

6. Shame

Have you ever said: “Shame on you!”?

Ouch. This is a nasty one. Shame isn’t a good feeling, and to fling the word “shame” in someone’s direction isn’t very nice. Here’s the thing to remember, the energy that you put out there always comes back to you with uncanny accuracy. You want to get your soul into a space where you can always lead with love and compassion.

Metaphysical remedy: Remember that shame “never” instigates change.

How Can I Keep My Mind Clear From Pollution?

I Am Going To Use A Tarot Deck Shown Below To Answer The Above Question.


Life is filled with misfortune and you’re going to get through it. Negative visualisation is the act of imagining the loss of what is important to you. The premise of negative visualisation is that if you imagine the loss of things, when they actually happen the emotional impact will be much lesser. You will have already expected it. Because despite our authentic efforts to prevent bad things, they happen.

I Pulled Out A Card Shown Below That Represents The Meaning For The Above Titled Question.

Minor Arcana = Three Of Swords

Without negative emotions once in a while, you can never become the person you are meant to be. No one can be happy all the time. If you have been evading challenges merely to ward off pain, then the Three of Swords is also a reminder that sometimes pain and mistakes are learning opportunities.

The Three of Swords is the third card in the Swords Suit of the Minor Arcana and presents the second challenge of the suit.

According to the Learning the Tarot website, the keywords associated with the card are:


You can read more about this card in detail on their website here.

The Suit of Swords Tarot cards deal with the mental level of consciousness that is centered around the mind and the intellect. Swords mirror the quality of mind present in your thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs.

Swords are often double-edged and in this way the Suit of Swords symbolises the fine balance between intellect and power and how these two elements can be used for good or evil. As such, the Swords must be balanced by spirit (Wands) and feeling (Cups) to have the most positive effect.

The Suit of Swords is associated with the element of Air. Air is intangible and unseen, but also in constant movement. Air can be still and mostly unnoticed, to becoming a breeze or a fierce wind. It is powerful yet refreshing and cleansing. Symbolically, the air element relates to knowledge, action, power, and change. It is a masculine energy that can lead by force and power, even though it remains unseen.

In a deck of playing cards, Swords corresponds to Spades.

[ Actions ] [ Opposing Cards ] [ Reinforcing Cards ] [ Description ] [ Reversed? ]


feeling heartbreak
causing heartbreak
suffering emotional pain
hurting inside
being disappointed
getting some unsettling news
having your feelings hurt
hurting someone’s feelings
receiving little solace
feeling lonely
being separated
wandering far from home
being spurned or rejected
feeling isolated from those you love
being deserted in time of need
feeling lost
experiencing betrayal
discovering a painful truth
finding your trust misplaced
being let down
letting someone down
getting stabbed in the back
turning against someone
breaking your word
acting against
The Three of Swords shows a heart pierced by three swords, representing the pain inflicted by words, actions and intent on the emotional and physical self. The dark clouds gathering in the background mirror this pain but offer the hope that, just as the storm clouds will disappear, so too will the pain and hurt you are experiencing.

Who am I and what do I stand for?

I Am Going To Use A Tarot Deck Shown Below To Answer The Above Question.


The universal energy moves with us in every moment – no matter how big or small that moment may seem. Daily meditation of being in the moment without judgment and appreciating the solitude of silence creates an energy to heal, learn and grow in Spirit. 

I Pulled Out A Card Shown Below That Represents The Meaning For The Above Titled Question.


Minor Arcana = 7 Of Chalices

Flight Of Fancy. The Magic Of The Four Leaves Of Mint. The Penetrating Perfume Of Mint Is Like The ThoughtOf Our Loved One Upon Us: It Fuels Ideals And Plans Of Love.

The Seven of Cups is card number 42 in the deck and the seventh card of the Cups Suit in the Minor Arcana of the Tarot. 

According to the Learning the Tarot website, the keywords associated with the card are:


You can learn more about what this site has to say about this card here.

According to the Biddy Tarot website, the keywords associated with the card are:


You can learn more about what this site has to say about this card here.

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What this Card Means to Me

Sometimes in life we are overwhelmed with choices and we don’t know what to do. Other times we feel like we have none at first until we take our time and get a little creative with our thinking. Either way, we often wish it was easier for us but we always have the choice and we have been gifted with the power to make the choice. Even if the only choices we have available are give up or just do the thing, it’s still a choice to make.


The Seven of Cups is a card of new opportunities, choices, and at times, illusion. When the Seven of Cups appears in a Tarot reading, you have many options and opportunities from which you can choose. But be careful! You are prone to illusion and unrealistic ideals. An opportunity with promises of more money, more fame, or more power may sound appealing, but as you look deeper into what is on offer, you may realise it’s not everything it’s cracked up to be. Your ego may pull you in a specific direction, but it’s important you check in with your Higher Self first. Evaluate your options and dig below the surface to discover what’s involved with each choice.

Often, the Seven of Cups can be a sign of wishful thinking and projecting into the future about what you would like to create, rather than taking action here in the present to make it happen. For example, you may wish for a fitter, more healthy body, until it’s time to get out there and exercise. Or you might wish for a successful business fuelled by passive income, but you’re not ready and willing to put in the hard work now to enjoy the fruits of your labour later. If you spend most of your time wishing but not doing the work, then it’s time to choose just one thing and make it happen.

You may find that your ideas are not grounded in reality. Your plans might sound fabulous in your imagination, but when it comes to implementing them, you may realise they do not work in the real world.

The Seven of Cups may be a sign of ‘shiny object syndrome’, where you keep finding the ‘next big thing’ but fail to see any of those new opportunities through to the end. When you are constantly in the idea phase, you miss the chance to bring your designs into fruition. Again, now is a time to focus on the one thing that will move you closer to your goal; resist the temptation to get side-tracked with other ideas as they arise. If need be, note your ideas as they come up, but stay focused on the one thing you’re doing.

This card is inviting you to move out of the ideas and options phase and choose. Each will have its pros and cons – it’s up to you to make sure that the option you select is in alignment with your purpose and your Highest Good – even if you feel somewhat paralysed by the options available to you.


The reversed Seven of Cups often appears when you face several different choices and, instead of choosing the option that may appeal to others, you are relying on your inner wisdom and guidance to show you the best way. You may come up with your own criteria to help you make decisions in alignment with your inner being.

If you find yourself with multiple opportunities or ideas, ground yourself first and reflect on what you want for the long-term. All these shiny new objects in front of you have a certain ‘magic’ power over you right now, and you’re at risk of losing focus if you chase after pipedreams. Take a step back and assess the options against your priorities to work out which opportunities will be a real benefit to you.

As a card of choices and options, the reversed Seven of Cups can mean you are overwhelmed by choice and cannot move forward. Reduce your options and focus on what is important to you. You don’t need to keep searching for that big idea; you have what you need. Make your pick and move forward with it.

Natal Chart Report

Birth Chart

This birth chart report shows the positions of the planets for WendyBella .

The Sun represents vitality, a sense of individuality and outward-shining creative energy.

Sun in Capricorn

Capricorn is a feet-on-the-ground, eye-on-the-prize sign. Those with Sun in Capricorn have a realistic, grounded approach to life that can be seen no matter how dreamy the rest of the birth chart suggests. These people know how to do things, and to get things done. Some Capricorns naturally turn their backs on things they deem too frivolous. They are very much concerned with things that are worthwhile–and that includes their own lives. Capricorns want to do and be something worthwhile. Like their Earth signs relatives, Taurus and Virgo, they need to feel useful and effective in the real world in order to be satisfied with their lives. But the Capricorn spin on the earth signs is that Capricorn possesses a stronger need for recognition in a worldly sense. They have a strong sense of society and its framework, and they feel most secure when they feel they are doing their part within that framework.

Capricorns like to pare things down, and take pleasure in the simple things in life. However, many are attracted to status symbols and these ones will wear the best clothes (tasteful ones!) and drive quietly impressive cars. Comparing Capricorns to their symbol, the goat, brings up some interesting analogies. Solar Capricorns can see into the future, and plan for it. They don’t mind taking things slowly, but they absolutely aim to get to the top of the mountain in life! They make their way steadily and sure-footedly; and their strength and singleness of purpose are admirable.

Capricorns can sometimes be rather lonely people, although they rarely let it show. They are often a little reserved–even standoffish. This is generally because they value all things practical, and they’ll seldom wear their emotions on their sleeves, unless they have a particularly flamboyant Moon sign. This is a sign that is surely the most resourceful of the zodiac. To some, Capricorns come across as unimaginative, but they can be enormously creative when it comes to the material world. They are generally very capable people with a strong sense of tradition and responsibility.

Many Capricorns have mastered the art of making people laugh. Their sense of humor can be of the deadpan variety–they’re generally excellent at keeping a straight face. They can be bitingly sarcastic, too. Capricorns are not known for taking too many risks in life. They value the beaten track and things “tried and true”. This is not to say they are stick-in-the-muds — they simply value the hard work laid down by those who’ve been around before them. Turn to your Capricorn friends for help when you need to really get things done. They’ll have practical advice, and they’ll help you organize and manage your life a little better. Capricorns are generally good with their “word”, dependable, and rather loyal people.

Short description:

He is honest, reserved, circumspect, honorable and strong-willed. Quietly ambitious within the realms of the possible, he likes and takes on responsibility. He can work in the social domain.

Weaknesses: a sometimes bitter and mistrustful mind.

Capricorn ascendant Aquarius

Sun in XII

You have a tendency to be introspective and need some space and seclusion in order to pull up your strength. You may avoid the spotlight, and if you do find yourself in a public role, you tend to hide your true self behind that role! Because your will is directed inwards, you need to find a path for yourself that allows you to “get away from it all” at least some of the time. Honor your need to be alone with yourself, but avoid over-identifying with your inner world to the point that you truly feel alone in a crowd. You shine when you serve others in some way. Your compassion sets you apart from others, but try to work with it rather than let your compassion work against you by reinforcing your own sense of loneliness.

-14 Square Sun – Moon

You have an internal struggle between your needs and your wants. You can lack focus and be indecisive as a result. Your ability to be objective is both an asset and a liability, simply because when you decide on one route, you are pulled in another direction at the same time. Something tugs at you, and you begin to question your stance. “But what if…” and “on the other hand…” are statements you can’t help but make, and that might plague you. You are always aware of the opposing point of view and the other side of the coin.

106 Conjunction Sun – Mercury

Because your ego and your mind are aligned, you possess much mental energy. You are always in a position to think about what you want, and in many ways, this is an interruption of the will. You are highly intelligent with a great drive to communicate with other. You invest a lot of pride in your intellectual capacities. You may not always listen as well as you speak, however! You might be too busy thinking about what to say next. But you are very curious and although you enjoy expressing yourself, you usually don’t dominate conversations completely. As far as studying or learning goes, you are better off reading the material than listening to a teacher. These traits come from a strong need to take an active role in communications. It is very hard for you to passively listen and absorb information.

Your opinions are usually strong and you are an independent thinker. You tend to be proud of your opinions and thoughts, and might easily get a bruised ego if you are not “heard”, if your opinions are pushed aside or ignored, or if your opinions are criticized. You are expressive and possibly a very animated speaker. You are also very witty and others enjoy your playful and sometimes mischievous sense of humor.

32 Sextile Sun – Uranus

It is natural for you to question tradition. You are, above all things, an individualist. You naturally rebel against that which is established. It doesn’t mean that you consistently break all the rules, but you definitely do question some of the rules, especially those that simply don’t make much sense. You possess a huge distaste for routine. You work best when you have some say as to when and how you get things done. You possess much self-integrity. You avoid labeling people and are most offended when others attempt to label or stereotype you.

You easily embrace new ways of doing things, you stick up for the underdog, and you express yourself in unique and inspiring ways. You don’t have to try to stand out as unique–you are original, creative, and progressive without trying. You are far from pretentious. You value honesty and truth, and you avoid putting on airs. You believe in the equality of people, and easily relate to people from all walks of life. You possess an unmistakable enthusiasm about life, and generally your life is interesting because you invite unusual or adventurous experiences into your life. You are generally appreciated by others because you are open-minded, fair, and not judgmental. Nothing really seems to faze you! You take things in stride, and are rarely shocked or taken aback by human behavior.

-102 Square Sun – Pluto

You may be prone to inner tension and negative, self-destructive behavior. When things are going well, you suffer from fears that something will come along to change that. Constantly worrying that the rug will be pulled from under your feet can easily become a self-fulfilling prophecy. You possess tremendous power and strength–when you learn to accept and use that strength, instead of fear it, you can be one of the most effective, insightful, helpful, and healing person around! At times, you can be intensely dissatisfied with your personal accomplishments and expressions of self. You put a lot of pressure on yourself regarding your own endeavors. You can be quite dissatisfied with your creative self-expressions, and want to hide your expressions from others until you feel the output is “right”. This is largely due to a perceived inability to express or reveal your true personality to others. You struggle with a deep need to control yourself and life itself. You are especially sensitive to criticism, and feel the need to “redo” yourself often. There is a marked fear of losing control, and this might stem from some traumatic event in childhood, or the childhood might have been crisis-ridden or emotionally-charged in general. As such, you can be intensely fearful of, or threatened by, change. This can express itself through attempts to control your life in such a way that you can manage your fears of being taken off guard. Of course, this generally backfires! You have an intense need for privacy at times.

0 Square Sun – Lilith

You might worry about a friend betraying you, although your partner will undoubtedly find this person full of charm!

The Moon represents the emotional responses, unconscious pre-destination, and the self-image.

Moon in Taurus

Familiarity is important to Lunar Taureans. These people are earthy and strong-willed. They feel with their senses and they are pretty much rooted in their ways. They revel in material comforts–in fact, building a solid and comfortable home and foundation helps to keep them feeling safe and content.

It isn’t wise to try to push Lunar Taureans into doing anything, but once they have made a commitment, they’re persevering. There’s a steadiness to this position of the Moon that is comforting to those close to them. But the conservative streak in these natives can be maddening to more progressive personalities. They tend to go out of their way to avoid “messy” or unpredictable situations, crises, and emotional displays. Instead, they focus on creating a reliable and secure life around them. In relationships, Lunar Taureans may not easily recognize their partner’s need for change, growth, or emotional stimulation.

Moon in Taurus natives are generally very romantic. Their affections are strong, deep, and unwavering. They are sentimental and warm. Since Taurus is a practical earth sign, the placement of the Moon in this sign suggests an ability to protect themselves and their own interests. They will rarely make a move without first determining that it is safe and that there’s something in it for them. Generally, Taurus Moon people have reliable instincts. They are very much tied to the physical world, and they often have a particularly well-developed sense of smell. Relationships with people born with this position of Mars are often quite enduring. Many Mars in Taurus people hang onto their mates, even in the face of serious conflict. Taurus is a fixed sign, so break-ups don’t happen easily.

There is a serenity to them that is calming. In fact, it takes a lot to really get to them. However, they do get off-center every once in a while. They are not the most adaptable people when their own routine is interrupted, for example. Though some Lunar Taureans might be considered anal, most simply have a stubborn streak that keeps them rather resistant to change. Rarely are they spontaneous sorts. Uncomfortable with surprises, these natives value stability. Their needs are strong but quite simple at the same time–they love the “good things” in life. The world of the five senses is all-important to these natives. Their love of stability and steadiness can make them slaves to routine. However, they are loyal and capable people.

Short description:

Sweetness itself. Convinced of their ideas and strong-willed. He is foresighted and willful. He knows how to trust. He appreciates all the good things in life. He appreciates and protects Nature.

Weaknesses: excesses in pleasure, laziness, sensuality, thoughtlessness.

Moon in III

Highly imaginative, but has difficulty in concentrating. He fantasizes frequently. Important studies, moves around a lot and travels frequently.

You are very responsive, communicative, and curious. You can have a talent for imitating others and/or for picking up languages. You might either intellectualize your emotions rather than truly feel them and deal with them, or you communicate with excessive emotion. Some of you may do both at different times, and as you mature and develop, you learn to find a balance. Your opinions and ideas change often, and you might find that sometimes you adopt others’ points of view and express their ideas as if they were your own. This is not necessarily because you are a copy-cat, but because you sometimes fail to own your own thoughts, and you are so very sensitive to others’ opinions. You might be quite nervous and restless, requiring frequent changes of scenery, even if the movement or travel takes place locally.

-194 Square Moon – Mercury

There is a conflict here between the head and the heart. Your emotions tell you one thing and your mind tells you something else. The result is a see-saw effect: you can be emotional to the point of irrationality at one moment, and logical the next. How to blend the head and the heart is a constant struggle for you, usually because you have a tendency to resist blending them! You love to chat, enjoy story-telling and writing/poetry, sometimes enjoy bending the truth, and you possess a sparkling wit! You are animated when you speak, and have a sense of humor that others appreciate simply because it’s very imaginative. You may be especially adept at satire. People can usually read your mood by how much you’re talking. When nervous or excitable, you talk up a storm. Moodiness is a characteristic, definitely, and an especially subjective nature makes you prone to hypersensitivity. It usually has to do with the fact that you take in so very much from your environment. This is also one of the reasons why you tend to be indecisive. You may swing between irrational and rational thoughts and feelings. It’s pretty much something that takes place “upstairs” in the mind, although others are sure to see the struggle from time to time. You are always interesting, and usually funny. You have a tendency to misrepresent yourself with what you say from time to time, but you’re a charming, if a little kooky, friend.121 Trine Moon – Venus

You are generally amiable and project a soft and yielding manner. You possess natural charm and you are highly imaginative and sympathetic. You can make an excellent mediator and go-between. You are keenly aware of your need for relationships and for intimacy. You have a well-developed respect for qualities typically associated with the feminine. People appreciate you for your tender heart and friendly, diplomatic disposition. You should enjoy a good measure of personal popularity and success in your life. Although generally considered “lucky” with relationships and with money, this is less about luck than it is about a certain level of inner peace and positive energy that attracts pleasant situations. At times you can be complacent, downright lazy, and over-indulgent in the “pleasures” of life. However, you are a peace-maker at heart and have an unusual ability to help and heal others. You are gracious and warm.

-78 Opposition Moon – Pluto

He has intense emotions and passionate feelings. He fears the loss of control of emotional and domestic matters, and fears change. At the same time, he attracts change and disruptions. The love life or marital life may be riddled with emotional scenes, jealousy, and possessiveness because he attracts intense partners.

-224 Opposition Moon – Lilith

Love-at-first-sight is to be avoided, as it will make one forget all other duties and lead to problems.

-70 Square Moon – Ascendant

He is unhappily influenced by the family. He is probably loved insufficiently by his parents, but looks for more love especially from his mother. He is susceptible, has superficial sensitivity and is sometimes irascible.

Mercury represents communication, Cartesian and logical spirit.Mercury in Aquarius

Not necessarily loud or flamboyant, but he often has a quiet way of stirring others up. Delights in exposing what he deems biases in others’ way of thinking. Very quick to contradict others, and to offer a different perspective, he enjoys intellectual debates. Amazing powers of observation, and a quirky way of looking at the world. Humorous and interesting. Loves practical jokes and raising eyebrows.

Mercury in XII

He has difficulty expressing himself, especially when young. Does not talk much, he does not speak for the sake of it. He works in remote and quiet places. He is discrete and philosophical.

You are not very quick to speak or communicate, especially in childhood, as you need to develop trust in your own abilities to express yourself. You make an excellent confidante–you are very discreet and secrets go into the vault. You might make matters too complex by overanalyzing motives or hunches, and then have problems acting on your intuition as a result. You are very attracted to symbols, sentiment, imagery, and paradoxes. You prefer not to focus on facts and learn best when ideas are presented visually, emotionally, or imaginatively. Learning to communicate clearly is a challenge for you, but one that might put an end to feelings of guilt, of being misunderstood, and to attracting unpleasant situations or duplicitous people into your experience.

66 Conjunction Mercury – Mars

He likes to discuss, likes polemic. He has good judgment and is determined. He is a worker and has lots of energy. He has a lively intelligence and goes to the heart of things. He is enthusiastic, incisive, and energetic in thought and speech.

101 Sextile Mercury – UranusHe is perspicacious, ingenious: he binds intelligence and originality together with genius. He likes literature, especially fiction. He is spontaneous in his friendships and knows how to take advantage of the situations that arise.

0 Square Mercury – Pluto

He may be impatient. He likes contradiction. His arguments are noisy and animated.

You are very incisive and aggressive with your opinions. You have a tendency towards fanaticism and often want to impose your ideas on others, sometimes in a subtle manner and sometimes more imperatively. You will find yourself attracted by the occult and other mysteries but it is recommended that you avoid those subjects because they can generate certain fixations or obsessiveness. You must learn to control your impatience and impulsiveness, to think things over before speaking, and to respect the weaknesses of others.

-74 Square Mercury – Lilith

This might be someone without much charm, without sexual magnetism, who holds back his sensuality.

248 Conjunction Mercury – Ascendant

He is intelligent, with quick and lively reflexes. He is preoccupied by his circle, likes to exchange ideas with his friends, but also with strangers. Of an open nature, he goes out to others.

Venus represents an interest for emotions and values, exchange and sharing with others.

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in Capricorn people will try to win your heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. These lovers want you to know they are goal-oriented, witty, savvy, and controlled. Nobody can get the best of them. They want you to see just how competent they are. They like some measure of predictability in their relationships as they are cautious in love.

Venus in Capricorn people project an aura of competency and their loner-like behavior can be attractive, in a cool way. They don’t go gaa-gaa over love, or at least they don’t express as much. Their lovers may complain that Venus in Capricorns are a little too practical and deliberate. Certainly, they can come across as lacking in warmth and spontaneity. Truth is, they can be rather romantic souls who yearn for a partner to share their lives with. Others’ image of their relationship matters to them. They are conservative and willing to commit. Venus in Capricorn people are attracted to serious, goal-oriented lovers. They are a little shy in matters of the heart, but they don’t want you to know it. If you like knowing where your relationship is headed, you’ll be mighty pleased with Venus in Capricorn. These people plan ahead in love, and, unlike Venus in Pisces, they will let you know exactly where they (and the relationship) are headed. Pleasing Venus in Capricorn involves showing them you are practical and realistic. They want to impress you with the things they do. Appreciate their “saving for a rainy day” attitude, and be aware that they want to show you off in a quiet way.

Venus in XI

Successful professional life in great part due to good relationships, friends or patrons. He finds love in the circle of friends.

The friendship level of your relationship needs to be genuine in order for you to sustain romantic interest. You tend to focus on a person’s unique qualities — those traits that make him or her stand out — as the most attractive. Your relationships must possess some kind of unconventional element in order to keep your interest levels high. Calves and ankles are either erogenous zones for you, or parts of your body that are particularly attractive! You may meet lovers through group activities. Although you value friendships and group affiliations highly, you might jump into friendships without considering the responsibilities they might entail.

-18 Square Venus – Jupiter

He is nonchalant, pretentious, full of self-importance. He likes what is beautiful and sometimes ostentatious, and spends lots of money for the sake of appearances. He likes to please and has numerous amorous adventures. He is unfaithful and undergoes tribulations in love.

-29 Square Venus – Saturn

This aspect sometimes means unhealthy sensuality. He is hard, and does not know how to express his emotions. He is frightened of showing his love, and this leads to disappointments, break-ups, lack of satisfaction. It is likely that he had problems with his mother, who did not know how to love him or give him self-confidence. He doubts, is suspicious and jealous. He will learn how to be happy in love, to be at ease with himself and to control his jealousy in the second half of his life, thanks to an older person, who gives his self-confidence back to him, so he can then trust others.

4 Conjunction Venus – Neptune

His professional life is unstable. He has a taste for the Arts, is a dreamer, is easily influenced and romantic. He is emotional and very sensitive.

Romantic, creative, gentle, and adaptable, you naturally express the finer qualities of mysterious and dreamy Neptune in your love relationships. Your imagination is rich and your fantasy world well-developed. You are turned off by rudeness and crudeness, and are drawn to beauty in its many forms. You are very giving and generous, but may be a little on the submissive side, or sometimes downright lazy, failing to take the initiative when situations call for it.

100 Sextile Venus – Lilith

This aspect means charm, beauty, attracts others by his magnetism: he is intense in love. Feelings are complicated. There can be brooding. However, he embraces, accepts, and understands the darker side of his nature.

Mars represents the desire for action and physical energy.

Mars in Aquarius

It can be a little difficult to understand exactly what makes a Mars in Aquarius native tick. And that’s absolutely fine with them–they enjoy surprising people. The tried-and-true methods of getting things done are far too boring for those born with Mars in this unique and original sign. Mars in Aquarius natives often have a rather original view of the world as well. These natives are generally quite proud of their independence. They are not easily pushed around with Mars in this fixed sign. Because Aquarius is progressive and open-minded when it comes to the world at large, it can be surprising that on a personal level, Mars in Aquarius natives can be quite obstinate. If they feel boxed in, they are quite likely to rebel. If you’ve discovered a pattern to their ways, they’ll make sure they aren’t so predictable the next time around. Being seen as “normal” simply won’t do!

With Mars, the planet of energy and drive, in an Air sign, these individuals get off on mental and intellectual pursuits. Aquarius is a somewhat scattered sign, even though it’s persevering in the long haul. If there’s a method to their madness, it isn’t always easy to see. Projects are taken on with a shotgun-style approach with this position of Mars. Mars in Air signs are generally quite clever at getting what they want; in Aquarius, they are particularly adept at getting their way. While this is not an overtly aggressive position of Mars (Aquarius has a manner that is far too detached to come across too forcefully), it is very willful. Combine willfulness with the cleverness of an Air sign, and you have a person who is quite creative about getting what they want–which generally is getting their way! Unlike with Mars in Aries or Leo natives, for example, you won’t always know you’re being dominated by a Mars in Aquarius native!

One of the most pleasant characteristics of Mars in Aquarius natives is their willingness to let others be. They place a lot of value in freedom and individuality–theirs and yours. They need space to be themselves and plenty of room to breathe. Generally not the touchy-feely types, these natives often laugh at sentimentality and tradition. In personal relationships, their approach to intimacy is definitely on the detached side, which can be baffling and frustrating to more personal and affectionate personalities. Of all the personal planets in the sign of Aquarius, Mars placed here can show the strongest “reformer” streak. The Aquarian ideal of equality works big time with this position, and the desire to push their agenda on others (usually in creative, rather than aggressive, ways) runs high. Obstinacy and a superiority complex are this position’s least desirable traits; openness to new ways of doing things (as long as they’re not forced upon them) is where they shine.

Mars in I

He gets carried away a lot. He is provocative, impulsive, dynamic and bold. Great spirit of enterprise. He has a great need of activity and throws himself into projects without thinking of the consequences of possible setbacks, nor of the dangers that may arise.

His reactions to new situations are immediate and pressing. He is an active, energetic, dynamic, enterprising, and possibly even forceful or aggressive person. He tends to begin new endeavors with gusto, although follow-through is not necessarily indicated by this position alone. Some might be rash, inconsiderate, or overly assertive. He can be fiercely independent, and he is usually direct and straightforward. Spontaneity is extremely important to him. Some might stir up trouble, whether consciously or unconsciously, when he is bored.

91 Trine Mars – Jupiter

He has a good sense of organization, he is jovial, frank and sincere. He is full of dynamism and over-abundant energy. He loves life and takes all it has to offer. He likes sports and the outdoor life. He is successful professionally and emotionally. He usually has lots of children.

He is honest and forthright in his dealings with others, and he tends to trust others readily. He can be a bit careless about spending money, however, and this is probably because he is so eternally optimistic that there will always be plenty around. The possibility of failure does not enter his mind, although success itself is not that important to him.

96 Trine Mars – Saturn

He is energetic and determined. He has strength and resistance, ability and patience: he is tough, and sometimes insensitive, and puts all his energy and talents into overcoming all the obstacles to his success. He is obstinate, calculating, does not take on anything without having thought of all the possible consequences, he can take all the time in the world and never loses patience to achieve his objectives. He is not particularly popular in his circle, but is feared and respected.

82 Conjunction Mars – Ascendant

Jupiter represents expansion and grace.

Jupiter in Libra

He attracts the most good fortune when he is fair-minded, treats others with equality, is bending without being a doormat, is gracious, and uses his talents at promoting and mediating. Values people and relationships, and might succeed best in partnership. Relating as equals is important to you. The arts, architecture, law, math, mediating, and politics are possible avenues for success. Use of charm and grace to reach goals.

Jupiter in IX

Deeply intelligent, he is tolerant and sincere. Professional success can happen abroad or in connection with foreign countries. Faraway voyages are profitable.

447 Conjunction Jupiter – Saturn

He is serious, patient, honest, hard-working, orderly. His judgment is good and he thinks things over. He pursues his objectives to the bitter end, usually knowing when to choose the right moment. He is upright and respects the law.

Saturn represents contraction and effort.

Saturn in Libra

Recognized for his seriousness, moral qualities. He is respectable, conscientious.

Weaknesses: not open to new ideas.

Saturn in IX

He is studious, patient, rigorous, austere. He likes reflection, meditation. He carries out all the plans he makes. He is a stay-at-home.

Uranus represents individual liberty, egoistic liberty.

Uranus in Scorpio

Intelligent and subtle. Adores research, inquiry, investigation. Very sensual.

Uranus in X

He must have an independent career, with no routine, which satisfies his need to move around, travel and which must in particular have an element of risk attached. He is eccentric.

5 Sextile Uranus – Ascendant

He is always changing, is unstable. He is ready to innovate, to change everything. He is inventive.

Neptune represents transcendental liberty, non-egoistic liberty.

Neptune in Sagittarius

Likes long voyages, things foreign, water.

Neptune in XI

Friendships are unselfish, and often wants to belong to a group of like-minded people.

52 Sextile Neptune – Pluto

Pluto represents transformations, mutations and elimination.

Pluto in Libra

Looks for new ways to relate to others.

10 Conjunction Pluto – Lilith

He will lead a double life. He will have a secret love affair which he will enjoy to the full, while having a perfect relationship with his partner.

House I is the area of self identity. The ascendant is a symbol of how one acts in life. It is the image of the personality as seen by others, and the attitude that one has towards life.

Capricorn ascendant Aquarius

Ascendant in Aquarius

How unique and original Aquarius rising natives come across! These individuals are just that — individuals, and they won’t let you forget that fact. Often turned to for advice, these natives possess intellectual poise and savvy. They often are curious, and quite learned, in both science and metaphysics–anything that involves advancement of the human race holds much appeal. It’s hard to shock an Aquarius rising. They’ve seen it all, or at least want you to think they have. In fact, they often enjoy shocking others. Not that they are flamboyant by nature, but they do like to, albeit quietly, get a rise out of others. Some natives born with Aquarius on their Ascendant can be quietly provocative and irreverent. Most people with this Ascendant are quite friendly and likable. Their personality quirks generally go over quite well with others. They generally give others quite a bit of freedom–accepting, as a rule, people from all walks of life as equals. And, their somewhat cool and detached curiosity about all that goes on around them appeals to most.

Curiously, Aquarius rising people can be a little standoffish while also coming across as humanitarian and kind. Often labeled as independent and original children, Aquarius rising natives often feel a little “different” or “special” throughout life. They often feel like they are on the outside looking in, and their ability to observe and deduce is often uncanny. They’re also adept at getting things to work, even when the parts that make up the whole seem like a puzzle with unusual pieces–especially when it comes to groups of people. This sets them apart as managers and team leaders. The Ascendant often reveals physical mannerisms and even choice of dress, as it shows how people present themselves to the world. With Aquarius here, natives sometimes have a quirkiness to their manner, and some dress in a slightly offbeat manner–not enough to make them stand out like a sore thumb, but just enough to express their original temperament.

Because these people seem so open to new ideas, it may be surprising when you encounter their decidedly stubborn streak. Aquarius is a fixed sign, after all. The ascendant sign shows how individuals react to new situations, and with Aquarius rising, there can be a resistance to change that seems to belie the native’s generally progressive nature. There’s a distinct inflexibility with Aquarian rising people, and, sometimes, a tendency to want to force their opinions on others. With their eye to the future of mankind as a whole, some people born with an Aquarius Ascendant overlook the more personal needs of the people closest to them. They are often attracted to partners who possess self-confidence and ardor.

House II is the area of material security and values. It rules money and personal finances, sense of self-worth and basic values, personal possessions.

House II in Pisces

The arts can be a source of income. His faith in the universe to provide may be helpful or difficult, depending on the overall condition of the second house. When the condition of the second is favorable, easy success in professional life thanks to intelligence, ingeniousness and a few friends. Heis careful with money without being miserly, because he is generous.

House III is the area of social and intellectual learning.

House III in Aries

Straightforward in speech. Lively intelligence. He is ambitious. He is always ready for any initiative requiring change or novelty. Sometimes, this position suggests an only child, or competitiveness amongst siblings.

House IV is the area of home, family, roots, and deep emotions/sense of self-worth.

House IV in Taurus

Makes a good father. Likes to be at home, with the little family for company. Appreciates comfort, peace and quiet, and simple but good food!. Takes care of what he possesses wisely.

House V is the area of creative self-expression, romance, entertainment, children, and gambling.

House V in Gemini

Likes to please: He can spend hours in the bathroom, preparing to go out, in the hope of meeting someone to dazzle. Likes interminable discussions with friends.

House VI is the area of learning by material transaction.

House VI in Cancer

Likes jobs in contact with the public. Weak point: the stomach.

House VII is the area of one-to-one relationships such as marriage and partnership, and of social and intellectual action.

House VII in Leo

Marriage for love, based on confidence, honesty, sincerity.

House VIII is the area of emotional security and of security of the soul.

House VIII in Virgo

Small inheritances. Happy old age, natural death.

House IX is the area of learning that shapes the identity.

House IX in Libra

Likes justice, honesty, loyalty. Make good lawyers.

House X is the area of material action. The Mid-heaven represents the work one will do in his life, the place one will take in the world of society. It becomes more important as one grows older

House X in Scorpio

Likes professions that involve a certain risk. Those in the police field are recommended. He likes to investigate. He is curious by nature, takes risks and fights to succeed.

House XI is the area of search for social and intellectual security.

House XI in Sagittarius

Loves above all travel, adventure and friends are often from abroad.

House XII is the area of education and of emotion.

House XII in Capricorn

Disappointments are difficult to digest, the bitterness can last a long time before he is able to react positively.

Your Personal Natal Chart

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After enlarging your chart, you can click on any planets in the chart wheel to find out more about their positions in your chart.Full birth data:

Sex M
65 Singapore SG
Date 01/14/1981 Wednesday
Time 07:00
Julian day 2444618.50
Timezone 7.0000 7h00e
ST 14.29
Lat 1.2800 1°17’n
Long 103.9200 103°55’e


Here’s My Secret Weapon: I Read


There’s only one thing, one constant thing that I believe keeps me moving closer to my goals, and keeps me fixed on what I want to do. It’s got nothing to do with being close to the universe or attracting things to me with positive energy.

My secret weapon is that I read.

Running a business, being a writer, living a full life — these things depend on the knowledge that we can gain and use. What we call following our gut, is really us being subconsciously guided by every piece of information we’ve ever consumed, shaping our instincts and ideas and forming us.

I read constantly, throughout every single day. I read obsessively, consuming new books and revisiting old at an alarming rate. I read because I want toseethe world through new sets of eyes. My bookshelves strain under the weight of comics, graphic novels, the complete works of Shakespeare, the Harry Potter series, books about Steve Jobs and Wall Street and Walmart and business and histories of the Holocaust.


So here’s my advice. If you want to accomplish anything of value, challenge yourself to read. And I don’t mean just read my blog posts — if you have the choice between reading something by me and reading a good book like Life After God, by Douglas Coupland, go for the book.

If you don’t read, you won’t gain the information and the insight and theinspiration that you need to make the right calls, at the right time. You won’t learn to see beyond the shit that you have to deal with, every day.

I think people want to believe that there’s a secret, to what I do. When they ask me for advice, it’s as if they think I’ve hidden away a key, that can unlock writing and business and make everything happen the way I want it. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. I believe that my habit of reading is what’s made the difference in my life, and I think it’s incrediblyimportant.

Make reading a good book a part of what you do. If you’re the busiest person on earth, just give yourself 15 minutes a day.


My Favourite Ways To Quickly Tap Into Your Intuition.


Want to know something awesome?

I believe you are intuitive.

In fact, everyone is.

Let me back up…

I’m not psychic. I don’t see crystal clear visions of people’s futures. I can’t communicate with spirits. And I can’t read people’s minds (although I have my Imaginary husband believing otherwise!).

But I do consider myself to be intuitive. And I believe you are, too.

You see, I believe everyone is born with intuition.

We each have the choice to dial it up and listen deeply to our intuition – or not.

So the way I see it, to be a fabulous Tarot reader, all you need is to be open to dialing in your intuition and listening to your inner voice.

Here are three of my favourite ways to access your intuition:

#1 MeditateSit in a comfortable position with your eyes gently closed. Take in a couple of deep breaths as you feel a sense of relaxation flowing through you. Watch your thoughts disappear like soft, white clouds as you open your mind up to its full potential. Spend the next 5-10 minutes in this blissful state. At the end of your meditation, say to yourself, “I open myself up to my inner wisdom and I wholeheartedly trust in my intuition.” Do this on a daily basis.

#2 Keep a journal of your ‘hunches’ and intuitive insights – Whenever you feel a sense of something that is about to happen, write it down. Come back to your journal later to see how things transpired and whether or not your intuition was on target. You’ll become more and more trusting of your intuition over time.

#3 Free write with the Tarot cards – Draw a Tarot card for the week ahead. For the next 5 minutes, write anything and everything that comes into your mind by looking at the card and tapping into your inner wisdom. Write continuously, even if it means writing, “I don’t know what to write.” After the week has passed, come back to your insights and see what manifested.

I swear to you, even doing ONE of these things a few times will start to shift your relationship with your intuition for the better.

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